Should I put my hair up?
Should I take off the earrings and nail polish?
Should I show up in jeans this time?
Every time we headed back to our religious group for one reason or another, I was inundated with questions. And, they were questions without answers. From one point of view, it was better for me to accommodate these people we love, where they were, and their views of what was necessary for holy living. From another point of view, it was legalism and I didn’t want anything to do with perpetuating it, especially not after I’d given up everything to get out from under it. [Read more…]